I am socially inept in general, but I can talk to dudes and girls I'm not attracted to if need be. But I can never utter a word to a girl I find attractive. Any suggestions? Words of wisdom?
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i know personally when I really like a guy for some reason I have a hard time like not laughing at like everything I just kinda giddy and all I can do is smile and giggle, I know I probably just look like an idiot but I can't help it, I have however found a way to control it and until I feel a bit more comfortable and its not so much the initial I like you kinda thing I will kinda imagine I'm talking to my best friend (best friend is a guy) and that makes me kinda relax and be able to talk I just loosen up and stop worrying about what does he think of me? am I making a fool of myself? instead I am just myself and you know if he doesn't like me well then its because he truly doesn't like me not that I just made a fool of myself...so in your case try to just imagine that your talking to one of your friends and try to just be yourself or when you are trying to talk to a girl you like do it in a group like have a few friends around and you will feel more comfortable...hopefully this will work for you :)1