I met my, essentially, boyfriend online and we haven't been able to see each other until now. it's been about 9 months since we first met and we're barely getting to see each other in person for the first time! I'm extremely nervous because I'm not the thinnest of girls. sure I may look thin but I hide it very well. I carry it all in my stomach and I hate it! I've been working on losing it for a whilebut Haven't been to the gym in about a week due to the fact that I just got a tattoo on my foot and I can't cover it up just yet. all the girls he has dated in the past have been petite girls. so it make me nervous! I know he had said once he likes a girl whos in shape and thin. I for one am freaking out about my gut. its making me nervous to see him, and I'm wondering what if he chooses to not continue talking to me because of my body? he has reassured me he has fallen for me and it won't matter, he's just happy to get to see me. is it possible to get over feeling so self-conscience? I've been looking into a personal trainer so I can shed this weight I've been working hard on losing! its not easy. oh and also I have sent him pictures of me before so he know how my body looks in clothes though haha. things are different naked! lol I've told him before I am definately not a petite girl and that I'm not the thinnest. he said neither am i.
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He likes you, 9 months are not going to be forgotten just because you look a little different than his usual type.
Though, from what I gather I don't think you are that fat.
Let me know how things work out, and seriously don't worry about this, it's better to be excited that you are about to see him :)0
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