Same thing happened to me bud. That's why I took off my pictures.
The online attraction doesn't matter. The girls on here are just bored probably thinking " Well I don't know him but he's hot...I'll add him."
But in real life it's different and more serious. Good looking guys will no doubt catch the eyes of girls, considering if they are their type and from there it's all about first impression.
Look at it like this. So you got good looks...but do you have the personality to match it up? Girls will be attracted to a good looking guy at first, but if his character sucks she'll be disinterested, unless the girl is really shallow. So you got looks, great! It's a lot easier for us to pick up girls but make sure you're character is attractive too and not some arrogant ass hole type.
well if you're attractive then girls are gonna be attracted to you. if you're the type of guy they're looking for personality-wise, then they'll stay.
if you're unattractive then girls aren't gonna be immediately attracted. but if you're a classmate or coworker or something and a girl gets to know you and you're the type of guy she's looking for personality-wise, then this is the point where looks cease to matter nearly as much.
Its kinda confusing. I'm not a very good looking guy, but I guess with my personality, girls kinda flock around me and start flirting, laughing at everything I say, poking me or keep touching me (but since I'm not interested in any of them, its not a big deal). The girl I'm interested in, told me "she didn't find me attractive" even with the personality that has a lot girls doing those kinds of things, she does talk to me a lot and smiles but never flirts, laughs and freak out with the slightest touch. Here's the thing, as soon as I change my personality towards her and become a a bit of jerk and treat her like dirt, she flirts, laughs, teases me and in several ocassions touching me out of her own accord. So my point is that even if they don't find you physically "attractive" if you have the right personality or tweak it a little bit, they'll be all over you or at least give you more attention.
if you act like an ass no matter how pretty you are you will be ass in their eyes :P its not only looks. its a mix between looks and personality. girls say they look for good personality and looks is a bonus.