i voted the 4th one, but ideally it would be between passing boobs and shoulder length. Although I like all hair lengths longer than or same as shoulder length. Crazy long would be a little awkward but it could work if it works for you, and if you have it shorter than shoulder length it can still be attractive if you can pull it off. :) Go longer as a general rule though :)
I've never had my hair gone past my shoulders [ only by an inch ]. I went natural about two years ago, so now it's short, but very curly. I wish it would grow faster so it can be at my shoulder or longer again.
No offense, but isn't it obvious there is no answer here? It's whatever works best for your face and that's subjective