Sometimes I ask my mom why guys rarely approach me... She says that I have this air of gorgeousness or princess vibe around me, but at the same time, I'm not the type of girl that guys my age find particularly pretty... She says young guys ( in their early 20s) go for the really loud girls or the really 'pretty' ones ( very thin, easily putting out) ... I don't kniw how I can possibly be gorgeous but not that particularly attractive to guys... Any ideas, people?
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When I was younger, I had low self esteem and my body language showed that. Guys rarely approached me and it made myself esteem worse. (I don't know why I based my self worth on how attractive guys found me but whatever.) Now that I am older, I like myself and my body language shows it. I have confidence and I am friendly and approachable. Not just by guys but people in general. Now, I get hit on all the time. I admit that I have aged well but I was still hotter when I was younger I just didn't know it.1