I am 18 and in college where I have a habit of looking at everyone in the class. So,one fine day , one girl from nowhere came and ask me on a date . As I hardly knew her, I rejected and she was so disappointed. So,I asked my friend to ask her why was she so disappointed and upset and she responded by saying that when I used to look at her,she felt I was interested in her and so she asked me out. So, do looking at girls make them feel that a guy is interested? Or what? I didn't meant to hurt her..So what should I do now? PLEASE HELP...
Yes. Girls can think that sometimes. It was her mistake and it's not your fault that you like to look around. I do it to, but out of boredom. All you can do is say sorry and maybe be her friend if you'd like? Then she'll understand why you were looking at her after getting to know you.
haha I stare at everyone in class too! but I guess if she felt you were staring at her a lot, then yeah she would start to think you like her, I probably would think the same thing. I don't think you hurt her...it was probably more embarrassing than anything.
Some girls will think that. But, by her asking you out, she likes you a bit. :) I mean I look around class too but I look at guys and girls. I am very opinionated in my head about what people wear, their makeup, what they look like in general, etc. :P If you are interested in her as a friend just talk to her. Try to be nice. Maybe one day you will want to go on a date with her.