I explain to one of friends that I have a crush on this white guy, but it seems like he not interested in black girls. my friends told me he is but every time a black girl pass his way he don't nothing. I guess you have to look a certain way. what I wanna know what are the qualities you see in a black girl? if you was to date a black girl how would you treat her and how would you want her to treat you? please answer. last thing, how would you want her to dress. Because all my guy friends have a problem with the way some girl dress
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YES, many of us white guys LOVE black women. How I want to be treated is just like you would treat any man who you would consider for the job of LOVER, HUSBAND or FATHER to your children. I have dated black women as black as coal so we really stood out in the crowd, all I ever wanted was her love and respect and to see that somewhere inside she had the strength to put an end to racism in our country at least in our town.
Yes, it's true a lot of white guys don't date black women because many of them are loud and don't always get along with the rest of the crowd, so white guys are afraid they won't try to fit in with their friends. As far as clothes go, well lets put it this way third Sunday in February could be very colourful at Church with Shekita ! Although when we were just out and about she would dress down a bit to just be casual and go hang out with me somewhere with my friends. All the black girls I dated came from good families so they dressed very respectful and often times overdressed for most occasions. Although some of our black girl friends had a tendency to dress a little too revealing and I saw where the white guys especially didn't care for that.
Just always be yourself and don't set out to offend anyone, make the point by proving you are a quality person with morals and values and a GOD given purpose in life ! A relationship worth while is one based on CHARACTER and PERSONALITY, you have to be willing to work hard for it no matter your skin tone !6