Do you ever act a certain way, even if it's not like you and not your style, for the sole purpose of being noticed? You know, because you have to "put yourself out there" otherwise the opposite gender won't know you're there?
No not at all. Maybe that's one of my problems but I'd rather not be the center of attention. If its just a one on one conversation I'll always try to make her laugh but if there are a bunch of people around I usually won't do much to seem obnoxious. That's not to say I won't talk, but probably won't be as out there as most people.