About 8. I need to be really attracted to them or it doesn't work in the long run. I've dated guys who were average at best, and it didn't pan out. Personality doesn't matter if there's no physical attraction. BUT, he has to have a great personality. I don't care if he looks like a Greek God, if his personality isn't borderline perfect then it's not happening.
I think looks are important but what's beautiful to me could be completely hideous to you! people's views are different but personally I have to be attracted to the person physically then comes the inside cos when you meet someone you don't know what they're like and at first you only have the cover to judge them by x
Depends on what context we're talking about . For friends, it's a 1. I don't care what my friends look like, and if they have a good personality it was be impossible for me to see them as "ugly".
In a relationship I'd say a 5. Personality is a must, and if he has a good one it'll make him more attractive to me anyway. To me, being attracted to someone is way more than their aesthetic appeal. It has a lot to do with their mannerisms, body language and just the general way they carry themselves - combined with their personality.
8, Looks is okay, but its not the only thing that determines a relationship in my opinion. I fall in love with someones personality. Looks will grab my attention, but her personality grabs my soul. ( I know that was really cheesy but its true.) If I had to rate how important personality is to me, I would give it 1000 out of 10. It helps determines a relationship, your not gonna date a hot guy/girl who is shallow, rude,flirty, narcissistic now are you? If you do, you shouldn't expect the relationship to last to long, and if you do, pray to god for a reality check or ask someone to hit you with a book labeled common sense for dummies. Love is built and thrives on connections that requires energy from both hearts and souls of each partner. In my opinion, that's how I view things, sorry if I insulted anyone. =)
Well, looks are VERY important to me... Fortunately I see beautiful women every time I turn around.
10, she needs to look convincingly human! or forget about it, it ain't happening!
Slipslender is how I wish all women were. You care about someones insides over their outsides. That is what people lack these days. Everyone cares how hot you are, or how big your wallet is, and all that. My mom was a bombshell, my dad was kinda nerdyish... 30 years later, my mom is a mom and my dad aged very well. They still love each other like the day he threw that snowball at her head when they were 14.