I am sexually attracted to men, but I find most men unattractive. It's like, the median woman is more attractive than the median man, so that means the "average" for women is higher than it is for men. So, a woman who is a so-called 6 is actually "below average" where a guy who is a 5 is "above average." I don't rate people by numbers in real life, just trying to explain what I mean...
What is wrong with me -- why am I attracted to so few people?
If we are speaking in terms of relative to health. I am a straight guy but I think a guy who is in good shape looks as good generally as a girl in good shape. The fact is guys don't generally care so much about their appearence so they tend to not mind about letting it go. But my opinion will be bias but of course women are the most attractive
I thinks its because of what makes men and women attractive and our life style. Women that are seen as attractive tend to be curvy. Moreover, women can get curvy by eating more food. Men on the other hand, are view attractive when we have have toned muscles. In order for men to be attractive we have to be active and not eat fatty food. However, in our society its very hard to be active and watch what you eat. For this reason, you probably don't find men attractive.
I think the way girls make more of an effort to look good so it's easier to come off as attractive. I mean most girls leave the house and care about how they look, their hair is done, their make up is done, they've picked out an outfit and everything whereas guys may or may not do much (if anything) to their hair, throw on whatever, and leave. Fashionwise girls also have more available to them, I mean just go to any mall, most stores are geared towards women. Even stores with men's and women's clothes have more women's clothes and there's more variety in those clothes so it's easier for women to find something that works for them. Girls also have way more pressure put on them to look good than guys do and they're going to be conscious of that whereas guys have been taught that it's OK if they don't look good as long as they can make up for it in another aspect.
I am sexually attracted to men but I don't find that many men attractive either though the ones I do aren't often 10s there is just "Something about them" that I can't explain and sometimes I will see a good looking guy but not feel attracted to him sexually but I am definitely not into women at all! It's called high standards ;)