Ok so ill be honest. All this trolling me has been getting to me lately. That last one made me feel pretty awful too. But thanks to some kind words from friends I feel better now.
But I just gotta ask how guys that have received those types of comments towards them deal with them? How do you not let them bother you?
I don't get girls telling me I'm cute or hot all the time, and so when I hear the other things, I get a little down about it.
Help me out folks. :-)
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Girls can be pretty harsh. Even to one another so I wouldn't take it personally at all. Girls that do this usually are really superficial or it makes them feel better about themselves to put others down. They are just bitches who have no heart or sensitivity about things. Or they have the ideal look in their mind as to attraction to them and anyone else that doesn't fit the mold is considered ugly to them, no matter what the personality. These women are usually materialistic as well.
I wouldn't sweat it bro. I get some weird reactions from women sometimes. Usually it's some knee jerk reaction they have to a question that they hear so many time they use it as an instant response. Or they don't know how to take your question or response or comment and act out defensively or from not knowing exactly how to react to whatever.
Sometimes they are insecure of themselves so if they show acceptance they feel like they will show vulnerability or something. Girls seem confusing, but usually reactions are from a defensive point of view or a show off style or just plain confusion. Just shake the dust off your shoulders and move on man. There's plenty of fish in the sea coining an old analogy.1