I was at the mall yesterday and I saw a really handsome guy with a not-so-pretty girl. As I passed by I heard girls saying how the girl didn't deserve the guy and she's probably bribing or blackmailing him.
To be honest, that totally broke my heart. Is it just me or am I the only one that finds those kinds of couples cute?
You know those couples where the guy or girl absolutely beautiful and the other is just the opposite? Yeah, I find those cute. To me, it's those kinds of relationships that are admirable because I see that some people in the world aren't actually all that shallow.
It gives me hope that people are still dating someone else despite their imperfections. I don't get it, why do people react so differently than I do whenever they see that kind of couple? Is it really just me?
Secret is: looks are very little to do with why you fall in love with someone (some might say that attraction is a different matter). Needy and spiteful girls are plain ugly even if they're pretty on the outside. You'll find that the unhappy people bring it on themselves by having a crappy attitude towards others.
You'll be fine, just be honest with people and make the most of what you have, no-one can ask more than that. As you say, "people are still dating someone else despite their imperfections", the people who believe they DESERVE the attention without working for it will be the ones never to find love. You're fine, there is nothing wrong with you.
How do you react to seeing these kinds of couples? I laugh
Is it just me or am I the only one that finds those kinds of couples cute? why do you. Do you find it cute because it gives you hope of getting a hottie or that guys aren't that fixated on looks? Or because the couples are acting cute?
"To me, it's those kinds of relationships that are admirable because I see that some people in the world aren't actually all that shallow." <- yep that's 'cute'
why do people react so differently than I do whenever they see that kind of couple? different people different opinions. As long as it's not spreading hate or encouraging violence does the why matter or make a difference in your life.
Is it really just me? nope plenty of guys find the hot girl/ugly guy couple inspirational..wait I meant 'cute' lol
I'm constantly amazed at what other people think is beautiful and ugly. I've pointed out gorgeous men to my friends and they go "meh." I even have guy friends who think Sarah Jessica Parker is cute, and while others think she's dog-ugly.
Back when I was dating my ex, my friends (even myself) noticed that he was much more attractive than I am. However, when I would catch him looking at girls on the street, admiring celebrities, etc, they'd always slightly resemble me. He was just naturally attracted to brunette, pale girls when my area of the country is positively swarming with blond, tanned, skinny debutante-wannabes.
My mother always told me that those average looking girls with very attractive boyfriends were the ones that had the courage to walk up to them and say hi. Just because some guy is drool-tastic, it doesn't necessarily mean that he thinks he is, or even knows that he is. And to the girls (or guys) who make rude comments to oddly-matched couples, they are either insecure about themselves or jealous that two people can love each other beyond the physical factors.
i saw an old man and woman in their 70's together at the beginning of the summer they were feeding each other in a restaurant and I actually went and had a conversation with them about it , they were just cute :D