I'm a regular at a place with a really cool waitress. I'm shy, but I do my best to flirt with her.
She is shy too and that makes it extra hard. She gives me smiles and looks and seems to be into me, but that's her job right?
Is there say I can check to see if she likes me without going all oit and asking her?
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I don't think waitresses HAVE to flirt. I've been around enough that are completely indifferent and all that. Sounds romantic what you have going on.
What I would do is write her a note, and find a way to get it to her. Slip it in the bill when some comes and gets it, or leave it with her tip.
I know you think that's bullsh*t or lame... but it totally depends how you word it. That's all there is to it.
"I don't mean to embarrass you, but I think you're lovely. Sometimes my thoughts linger on your smile, and it makes me smile. May I buy you coffee sometime? My name is _____. If I'm wrong just blush. :) I had to say hello". And if you can pull it off add a funny teaser at the end.
I mean... think of the alternatives. Will you ask her out and maybe embarrass her in front of all her co-workers? Follow her to her car like a creep? Post in 'missed connections'. ...
Good luck dude.0