I cook, clean, do laundry, have a banging body that I work out 6 times a week, beautiful face, smart, great career. I always get asked why I am single and the truth is men don't appreciate what I do for them. Got me sitting here in my good Victoria secret lingerie with TV remote and dinner in hand when you come home from work, and I don't even get a thank you. I get it all the time, guys chasing me down asking for my number and being surprised that I can be beautiful and single or have issues with dating. Its because I am super nice to my men and they don't appreciate me at all. Why is this? Are all white men like this? I never dated a black guy, maybe I need to start? I am so tired of not being appreciated.
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I may not have all the same qualities you do, but I'm still a good person at heart -- I'm kind, caring, loving, very helpful towards others,and I have a great head on my shoulders (working towards my degree in school for a great job, not a trouble maker, etc. etc.).. but I'm not white (I'm indian on the outside and white on the inside lol) and all the guys I like seem to not be attracted to me because they have a "preference" for white girls.. it sucks, but that's how the majority of guys are.. we can't help it and we can't change it (I, personally, don't want to even try).
They get their hearts broken by the wrong type of girls over and over and over again, yet they don't learn their lesson.. they still go back to those girls because of their flat out race and/or looks (it's all about the attraction).. without giving girls like you and I even a second thought. We could wear a sign that says "Hey You! Look! Great Girl over here.. just PERFECT for you!" and they would still ignore it lol.
It sucks.. but this is how guys are programmed until they mature (which a lot never do).. they go after girls who could be the best looking first place prize on their arm but then end up with a last place reject stamped on their hearts because she dumps him for someone else (sorry a little cheesy, yes I know lol). We just gotta suck it up and pray that there is a good guy out there for ladies like us .. a guy who will be the one we want to be with and who will treat us with respect and love. Until we find that person.. all I can say is pray for the good and ignore the bad. Good luck.0
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