I slept with my friend once, a few weeks ago. He has a girlfriend, but I'm single. Our friendship is fairly new, only about 6 months, and based off the fact we've had almost identical life experience with the exception I'm in my early 20s and he's close to 30.
Two days ago I noticed he has started holding eye contact longer when we see each other and randomly looks over to me much more than before. Now whenever our eyes meet he gives me this look. Its hard to describe but totally makes me freeze for a few seconds, forget the rest of the world, and its almost like I can feel he is trying to say something to me. I noticed it after the other day when he made me blush tremendously hard from something unrelated to "the look" (he typically makes me blush a lot, but this time more so than ever before) and when he giggled from noticing how red I was, it just made me blush even more. Ever since then, he's given me this look and its freaking me out.
The scary part for me is that the last person who gave me this same exact look was my ex fiance, but we were together for months before he ever did. If you were him, what would you be thinking? If you were me, what would you do when he gives me this look?
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oh man!? Don`t freak me out, I do the same thing with my best friendgirl, I see her as a sister and sometimes hope she would like me enough to be my wife. She has no boyfriend and I no girl friend. But the truth is that when I overlook her often, it isn`t atraction, it`s really caring. I care for her to much, and am always making sure that she is happy. She does the same and always makes me laugh, that also is a reason I over look at her.
So there are three options: He likes you?, You make him laugh and it entertains him? or he`s watching your feeling-caring for you "watching your back"?1