It seems like most girls understand guys are visual but still don't fully comprehend it, almost as if they are guessing. Some girls will try to attract a guy with their upper body while others with their lower body. It seems like each guy differs in what gets his attention. Do girls slowly experiment in what lures guys in or just guess by what they hear in the media? What have you learned?
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I've learned yesterday morning that my boyfriend WAS a breast-man. But when it comes to really attracting a man, it all comes down to how the girl fixes herself up, carries herself, and takes care of her body. I'm an A36, and during the 10 months I've been together with my boyfriend - he has never criticized me for having small breasts (unlike a few exes that were just plain asses). Heck, he even found something to love about them (although I don't care to share that with you all, haha). But all in all, you can still win a breast man even though all your assets lie on your back. This applies to men of any preference.
I've also learned from some psychology books on how women indirectly make the first move to men with their body-language. A woman will usually try and make her feminine traits noticeable. I even found out that women who have been out of the shower longer than others have better luck at attracting men than those that are fresh and clean because the "dirtier" women release pheromones - and believe it or not most of them are found in the arm-pits.
I however wouldn't go around with exposed armpits and flailing arms at the club because that's just not my style.
I've noticed that men judge women by what they dress as well, and most recently (yes) by their choice of Facebook profile pictures.
But all in all, a man can have any hot woman, because they are all the same to him. The one he finds beautiful inside and out is the woman he treasures.
So I make sure I dress classy, and not too flashy. And flirting - sorry to say this but men are SUCKERS for that. I would usually flirt with my eyes and body-language, and it works - a little too well. Once I simply looked at a random guy and smiled - wondering if those relationship books on attraction would work. It definitely did because I started to get a lot of attention from him - I learned that men feel special when women do this. Now that I am with someone however, I at least know NOW what I shouldn't do if I DON'T want to attract someone that I DON'T want to put up with.
There's more, but there's a stupid word-limit and it's 3AM.
Feel free to let me know what you guys think of my knowledge about men. :)1