If you really loved a person and they just did not want you anymore. And eveyone told you that they were gonna hurt you...But you did not listen because you loved that person deeply...how do you look at it positive?
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It's tough to do because that just happened to me. I dated this girl, she wanted me "forever" and basically always told me how much she loved me and crap. I was the one pulling all the weight of the relationship, I was always leary of the relationship when I was in it too. Always had doubts, but she was only 22 so I tried to wait out her maturity, never happened. I was told she was fickle by her own brother! Gut told me to walk away, and I didn't. Friends all told me she always does the dumping in relationships too but I didn't listen... She dumped me, hasn't talked to me since and I've struggled over it every day. It's been 3 months and I almost feel pathetic at this point. Today is her birthday and all I can think of is some douche taking her out for dinner and entertaining her. Should have been me.0