How can I look more approachable?

I really am a sweet person, but I have been told that I look unapproachable. I think the main reason is that I 'm shy, but my body language probably doesn't help. Any tips or advice?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Smile and look at the person you want to come up to talk to you. Don't stare them down but 3-5 seconds of a look can do it. 5 seconds feels like an eternity when you first do this, so just try 3 seconds first.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Don't leave your arms or legs crossed very often or for very long, make eye contact with guys you like/think are cute and smile at them, but not for too long (1-2 seconds tops).

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What Girls Said 1

  • try this video : link it's pretty good and gives basic tricks...

    smile! eye contact is great too!

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