I love the professional woman look, I think it's just great. Smart and well-heeled, a little sexy maybe, but not too much. Your family are dopes! Keep strutting your stuff! Maybe get changed when you get home though, if you don't want to get razzed too much.
If I had to pick one then I would definitely pick business attire. A women who dresses smart seems so sophisticated and intelligent. I particulrly like it when girls wear heels with a pencil skirt. That to me is so sexy. I love it.