youth and beauty catches the eye, a girl that is relatively calm I can't stand women when something goes wrong they panic like its the end of the world. I can't live with that. I like calm women. smart women, who can challenge me, call me on my sh*t but respectfully. a girl that wants kids. a girl that's willing to be a stay at home mom till the youngest is in school (if she makes more money then me then id stay home), and has a sexual past that I can accept(preferably non). that's about it really, she doenst have to like the hobbies I like that's what my friends are for, but if she's smart then I'm sure we will have plenty to talk about.
I look for females like you! Yeah I think males are wired to initially lok for beauty and sex...but do not ever think that we don't get around to looking for more...actually I spend a lot of time looking for what is NOT there...and the first two are uptight & high-strung..also selfish, self-centered, bitch & naggy...and lot more...but don't get me wrong...none of us is perfect...but personality match and sexual compatibility are very important if going to share a dwelling for more than a few weeks or months.. <3
A women who is independent and faithful, would be my main two traits.
Independency in a women keeps the man chasing her for her attention which is what all men are subconciously attracted to; it's what keeps the interest level high. A women who is faithful.. well come on, duh lol.. we all want trust and security.
They are looking for a woman who is accepting, nurturing, supportive, strong yet vulnerable, decent yet naughty in private, kind, caring, loving, honest, intelligent and who can help him be a better man :)
well a friend of mine recently told me that he likes me cause I'm strong, independent,smart and funny-which made me believe in men again,but then again,he considers himself asexual so,i guess you can't have it all,they either want to you for the vagina or the brain :I but in general,i think that for a relationship-they want beauty&brains+fun,for getting laid they want beauty+fun