Do you think the more average looking a person is, and is lacking in good looks, the more their standards become higher?
I know it doesn't really make sense at first, but when you think about it, it's almost like they are overcompensating for the fact that they were not born fortunate enough.
It seems like the more conventionally beautiful people seem to have no problem lowering their standards because they know they're still valuable...?
it seems as though average looking to below avg looking people are more racist... and the more cultured a person is, such as those living in big cities, like NYC, they seem be less racist?
Does anybody know what the hell I'm talking about, or have opposing thoughts?
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I'm from New York City, and your extremely accurate, I do think most people are starting to put their standards a little bit higher then they should. Of course, each person is entitled to their preference and opinion, but sometimes some things are getting a bit out of control. In NYC, you can bum into people in a snap, So there is a lot of people to meet, many places to go to meet new people, see things, etc. Though , I heard some of my friends make some of the wildest and yet craziest guidelines into finding their partner.
Some of my guy friends will Never and I repeat, never date a girl that is chubby or a little bit overweight. I'm like wow,that pretty f***ing obnoxious and shallow to say. They said they will one night stand one, but never date one? Before I even continue, here is something 2 of my close female friends said about their demands. They want a guy who is slim, athletic, hot, and sweet. Then they are actually a bit overweight , So doesn't that sound a bit confusing? I don't know extremely attractive people, ( Probably 6 at most.) People is starting to set their standards a bit too high, its either out of pride or stupidity, probably both.
To wrap it up, They don't even talk about even connections/chemistry , they are straight up about looks and things that they must have or its not working out. Well maybe someone will come along and help pull these peoples heads out of their asses.1