I wouldn't say I'm a particularly unattractive redhead (like I'm not that ginger, just a few freckles, auburn hair and pale-ish skin), but I rarely get hit on. So guys out there - if I'm correct, as it appears that there are guys out there with a thing for redheads - then what could my problem be?
(lol, there was one drunk guy who hit on me who had an obvious redhead fetish one time though...)
I don't really know what advice to give you, but I think red heads look amazing, and they have that look about them that is unique, so all I would say is be yourself, I don't and wouldn't say you are doing anything wrong, because the way you crafted your Question was respectful and mature, with a little but not a lot of despair, but when someone recognises your talents, you can bet that they are worthy of them and would treat you how you have always desired to be treated, so just remember that you have talent, they won't go un noticed. You have many men who desire a girl like you, and that's all you have to do is be you, good luck ,xx
You just have to sell yourself XD. It could be anything, your 'problem'. It could be that your hairSTYLE isn't what it could be, that your clothes aren't what they could be.. It could be that you don't seem approachable from your bodylanguage.. Who knows... It literally could be anything..