personality wise- he's a cold hearted jerk, treats people like sh*t, walks around thinking his sh*t doesn't stink, he's negativity on top of negative, doesn't respect others, is immature and just a loser
looks wise- he is shorter than me or way too skinny/scrawny, also I'm straight so a lot of gay guys like drag queens are mad ugly to me
Guys can get away with pretty much anything, but for some reason when guys have uneven or blotchy skintone it makes them heaps more unattractive to me. I also personally find that how a guys dresses really affects his level of attractiveness... as I guess is the same with girls. Don't down rate me just cause I'm honest. I'm not vain, but this is what I've personally noticed.
I've read that having a symmetrical face implies that a man is healthy and is a subconscious cue for women to find him attractive. I would say looking trashy or acting egotistical really makes a man look ugly.
Honestly, if I had to date an (uglier) guy I can't really say I would much less unhappier than if he was a male model. Sure, there are a few characteristics I would put under the "ugly" category, such as severely overweight (fifty or so), bad hygiene, and if he had the really narrow facial structure. I'm sure there a few other ones, but I am drawing a blank. I think if someone if seen walking with an (uglier) guy it shows she was able to see him for his personality instead of looks, which, of course, isn't the reason for some people.
I think it's partially about what others think. That influences how you see them as far as looks; this can work the other way as well... the looks can influence how you see them.
One thing, talking about statistics, etc. I've read that the more "symmetrical" a person's face is, the more likely they are to appear more attractive.
I think that style can also help/hurt you, as well as public relations. I joke that for a Christmas gift, I'd love a PR firm to work to make me attractive. You look at a lot of celebs, and many of them are seen as attractive because we're told that they're attractive. They hang out with models, have a lot of power and influence (which they usually squander so much of it), and it makes them attractive.