Today, it came to my attention that some of the super model caliber girls in my classes felt extremely insecure when talking to me. Its sort of an epidemic at my school. I've been told that a girl started wearing make up just to talk to me, which I find appalling. The only thing I will ever see unattractive in a girl is a lack of confidence, and feeling like she needs to change herself to please me. Especially since I **HATE** make-up on girls. I feel like I can't trust them, it makes them seem fake, as if they are hiding their real self. My question to you is:
Would you ever change your appearance, personality to impress a guy? If so why?
What makes girls feel so imperfect? Everyone is beautiful, there's no reason to think looks will make people think differently of you. If a guy is going to date you for your looks. He isn't even worth your time in the first place... I know so many girls with boss ass personalities that I'd love to date, just because they're fun to be with, and I can stay in a good mood around them. But nobody wants to date a dork :(. People don't realize that I'm an extremely shy and boring person, but girls approach me just because I look interesting.
I think everyone needs to re-evaluate the way they judge the opposite gender. I can guarantee you, you will be so much happier, and find the perfect person, if everyone would stop being so superficial.
- I feel confident in myselfVote A
- I don't feel confident in myself (tell why)Vote B
- I just wanted some applesauce, wtf man.....Vote C
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I'm about the farthest thing from confident. I'm a bit heavy/have a bigger build, still a virgin, have acne, tall for a girl (+5'10"), and have always been told that I look like my father (who is a toothless drunkard). I'm not about to change anything other than my weight and try to get rid of the pimples, but that's more do me than anyone else. I think if I had to wear makeup and heels and go all out with fake crap to appeal to a guy, he doesn't really like me. Guys that choose girls for looks alone is like they're buying dog sh*t because it was wrapped in something shiny, it just doesn't make sense.
As for not trusting girls that wear makeup, I'm with you. I always wonder what they're hiding and why bother hiding it if everyone can tell you're covering something in the first place. Anything past eye makeup (eyeliner, maybe mascara) and lipgloss/Chapstick just seems excessive to me, unless you have somewhere important to be and have to cover up a zit. A lot of girls feel like they need it to be pretty, but so many I them would be better off throwing it all away and just going natural.2