You cannot have a relationship with someone you find ugly. You just can't. There has to be sexual attraction and chemistry, otherwise you're just friends.
Even people who aren't conventionally attractive can be seen as attractive once you get to know them and their personality shines through. It's like with best friends, you don't really associate them with their looks so much, but you pay more attention to what they say and how they act instead.
ive asked this before and most of the answes said ugly because they feel like they have better personalities. which honestly I think is a crock of poo poo because I have met some really beautiful people with amazing personalities and some really bad looking people who think they are the s-h-i-t and who will treat you like you are nothing but a roach. and guess what! the latter of the two is taken and the first is single, surprise surprise
You can't actully have a health relationship with out being attracted to the other person. Its how you see them if you think they are ugly your not going to date them! My cousin had a girlfriend everyone thought she was hot as hell I thought he had a horse face. Its all in how picky you are!
lol I see your point but there's a whole other side to it. of course being attractive gives you more choosing power and if you are more attractive than the person you're dating you don't have to worry as much about them leaving you. its kind of f***ed up but true most of the time. I think attractive people aren't in relationships as much because of higher standards, while less attractive people settle more often because they have fewer options. I could write a lot more on this subject but id rather not.