Ok, I'm 19 and I'm really into gothic lolita clothing and cosplaying.
Don't get me wrong, I have other clothing and enjoy other styles as well, but a lot of the time I do enjoy going out in public wearing lolita inspired clothing.
I was just curious if any other girls are into the fashion and if guys think it's a turn on or a turn off?
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Just like any other style guys will or won't love it. There is no rule. That is like saying all girls are turned on by a popped collar guy.
Personally, I am in the same boat as you - I love gothic and lolita clothing, but I normally wear regular clothes unless I feel like "playing dress up."It is such a strong style it is a hit or miss. Two of my exes adored it and asked me to wear it more, one just called me a spaz.
Ultimately if the guy likes you, he likes you. You just might be a bit more intimidating because of your eccentric geddup. No matter what, don't change your look to go "guy catching" like a venus fly trap - the clothes reflect an aspect of your personality, and if they really are against that type of dress, then they aren't the right person for you.0