All my friends and my family have large cup sizes and/or bust line, slender waist lines and narrow hips. And it seems to me that this is the popular and most desirable body type. But me? Oh I had to be the oddball.
I have broad shoulders, wide bust but not so large cup size(I’m a borderline C or a full B cup), slender waist and “child bearing hips”( I hate that damn title). Every time I turn around I hear men go bonkers over top heavy women. It’s as if no one truly cares if a woman has hips. If anything, the women with very slender and trimmed hips get all the glory… So long as she is busty. It’s so frustrating, makes me feel as if no man would look at me with all the longing in his eyes as they look upon my busty comrades.
I mean hey, don’t get me wrong, I can DEFINITELY see the appeal. Busty women are BEAUTIFUL. Their chest are like, the center of their femininity. But aren’t round full hips feminine as well? Or is it just a worthless trait to have when it comes to attracting the opposite gender? If so, I will take my rejection humbly and go my merry way and deny any desire for men I may have for the remainder of my days >:P
Most Helpful Guy
Do you know where the phrase 'child bearing hips' originated from ?
It's a feature that promotes a woman's (in evolutionary theory of physical attraction) ability to bear children, to give birth.
The evolutionary theory' states that among other features, men will find this feature attractive because' it indicates a woman's ability to bear there children and survive the process, (think about back in the caveman days where the foundation of life was to produce offspring and spread your gene's) - well that's how evolutionary psychologists refer to the subconscious physical desire of that characteristic.
Don't Beyonce, Mariah Carey and Kim Kardashian all hold the same physical feature? And their bodies are adored by the media and majority of men. Even though there breasts are relativly similar to you, and the same with their frame. (Kim Kardashian being a slight exception - but she's 30 % Counterfeit anyway)
I adore wide hips, I think it promotes a curvy voluminous figure, as well as I share 'SnackG's preference on Bold, plump round Be-hinds.
Trust me, there are a vast amount of men that adore the figure you described. As well as a lot of men that don't adore big breasts. I for one don't think it promotes the female form, just bombards a slender and luscious look with two big round meat balloons.
But that's just my opinion. C is ideal in my mind. If they stand up and don't droop, that's all it takes for me to take notice.
Otherwise 30 % of my visual tendencies are going to be directed to the area your leaving Be-hind. lol.
Hope this helps :)
- Show AllShow Less