I say about 80% of girls pass the vision test for me in the terms that I find them attractive. But only like 2% come anywhere even close to what I am looking for in personality. Is this being to picky?
No I think you are right on track...I probably spend too much time on here talking about sexual compatibility...vision is usually what attracts me (and I think most males) and sexual compatibility is very important...but none of it matters if your personalities don't mesh..."Opposites attract" it is said and I believe in that concept...there are LOTS of females that I am either attracted to or just flat out like...but...in most cases...I could not live with them or they could not live with me...my wife has her share of weaknesses...but...she is easy to live with and she is very good at managing me...something that very few others can do.
No, it's called having high standards. It's just what you like and what you are interested in and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less than the best so don't worry about it someone will come along soon enough that will meet your standards! Good Luck :)
no, if you aren't turned on by someone, you can't be with someone. I applaud you for the 80%! Some people aren't as shallow. It is proven that the older you get, the more people are attractive as well. just a random side note.
I know how you feel.There's millions of girls who are attractive but there are very few who you can connect with on a deep level, as well as just getting to know them and how comfortable you feel around them. Best of luck.