Both...girlfriend was too busy with school and didn't want to do anything physical...came across a girl that wanted to go out for coffee, then she was like, hey come to my place, and well, from there, the deed was done. Another time I was on a business trip and was just too horny, so I started talking to this girl I met in town, and we ended up hooking up, so yea, I looked for that one...
I think all guys have that lingering eye, but acting these desires is different. I never have...cheating causes nothing but pain and heartache no matter who does it. Right opportunity or not, there's never justification for doing it.
Do you have a lingering eye...?
I have never cheated, but I believe if the right situation came along it could be good for both of us and even myself and my relationship.
I realize this makes no sense, maybe it could be explained other ways.