I have been thinking about the "ugly" term when we relate it toward our appearance.
I think we "believe"things are ourselves are ugly. It is all what your opinion is of yourself.
If you go around asking other opinions of your appearance...no answer will be completely the same...it will f*** with your head, and this causes you to pick sides. Positive or Negative. If you believe you are ugly. You are ugly. If you believe you are good looking, you are good looking. I think you will have support from others in any direction...more or less. My point is, it is truly your honest opinion. Not mine.
It boils down to what you think of yourself. People will screw you over.
To answer my question: I think I am both. That is what makes me awesome. I am officially proud to say that. I have no doubt or hate toward my opinion of myself. I am content. No need for clarification. I know myself more than anyone else could know me.
I am not bad looking, like children do not run screaming when they see me. I am not Brad Pitt either. I guess I am satisfied with my looks because there is a lot of other good stuff about me. I have to admit, I am not as confident in my looks as you, but maybe I will get there someday. Good looks are only temporary anyway.
Why, yes. In fact, and it's a proven fact that I'm so damned ugly, I've caused the sales of vomit bags to greatly increase. But seriously? Like everyone else, I have my good days and bad, but I don't think I'd call myself ugly. More of an ugly attitude I have towards it from time to time.
im pretty in my opinion and some others too but I have some flaws. I could lose some weight and clip these split ends but even in spite of it I'm not ugly. I don't feel bad about myself though, I know I'm blessed
I am not ugly. I never ask other people what they think because honestly I don't care. All that matters is what I think of me. I have room for improvement. I am by no means perfect, but I am happy with what I was born with. Aside from the fact that I wish I had my mother's olive skin. I think I am too white. =D
People are only deemed "ugly" because they don't fit into society's conventional ideas about beauty, but to someone else, they might not be ugly at all.
Anyways, I don't worry too much about this. If I did, I'd probably wear more make-up, but I just can't be bothered, lol. I take care of myself and I think that's all that matters. I'm not "ugly" by society's standards, but I don't put myself on a pedestal, either. I'm just normal.
I know I'm attractive but I know that I'm not drop dead gorgeous or anything.
I am ugly, and it wasn't originally my opinion. It wasn't something I started to give much thought to until people started calling me ugly. That happened in High School, and at the time it didn't bother be too much. I figured it was just other people bullying me and it wouldn't likely happen in the adult world.
Now I am 27 years old, and I still get called ugly constantly. I do everything I can to make myself look better. I've had so many different makeovers in the last ten years that I've lost track. It doesn't seem to matter what I do, people will still call me ugly. They all say I have a mans face with a woman's body. I am skinny, and I work out a lot but my face is really really ugly.
I've had so many different hair styles to try and flatter my face. I went from short to medium to long, back to medium. I've had my hair layered. I once had it permed. I straigten it. I wear it up. It doesn't change much. I also do different makeup techniques, but it doesn't help.
I'm trying to save up money for plastic surgery. I have a huge nose and I am hoping if I get a nose job that will help a bit. What I think I really need is facial female feminization surgery. It makes a masculine face look feminine. I guess Transgender males to females get it. Females get it too though. It's expensive though.
For now, I just have to put with how disgustingly ugly I am.