By tall, I'm talking 5'9 and above. I'm 5'9, an Asian and I would absolutely love to wear high heels, but I don't, because I get funny stares from people even when I'm wearing flats.. and I've heard some guys go 'woah she's tall' when I pass by them =_= So yeah. Guys and girls, opinion please?
i wear heels allll the time, and I mean like at least 3 inches usually 4 so it does add a lot of height. sometimes I used to get self conscious, but I decided I should just wear what I want, and I LOVE WEARING HEELS. I feel hot, fashionable, and just great. if you actually have style when you wear them(as in they don't look tacky) and you have the correct body type(and from your picture it looks like you do) then go for it! you're majorly pretty so you'll just look fantastic:)
one reason I got over my self consciousness was because when I would go to nyc I would see these really tall, beautiful girls in 5 inch heels who had fantastic style and I would just gape at them, and so did everyone else. so now I cherish my height. you should to:)
Most guys, I think, can barely look a girl straight in the eyes much less look up into her eyes. They talk and act tough, but in the end they are WORMS when it comes to looking a girl in the eyes. That's why even 6'5" guys are seen walking around with these tiny girls only 5' tall! They DON'T have to look them in they eyes! Looking down at a girl gives them a false sense of security that they are superior. Almost all my life I've always been attracted to taller girls so, imo, I think you should wear what heals you want. If a guy squirms looking up into your eyes, then he doesn't have any confidence in himself and it's time for you to move to the next guy.
You wear what you want to wear, end of story. I would think less of a girl who let others' opinions affect how she dresses than one who dresses how she wants regardless.
That being said I like girls in flats better regardless of height because they're far more practical and I like the idea of a practically minded girl who puts function before style. That's just me tough.
Only tall guys or very confident dudes will aproach you (like me for example). Had an ex that was about the same and with heels she was easily taller than me. Took some getting used to but she was hot so f*** it, not going to let the fact that she was taller than me with heels disuade me. Got a lot of jealous looks in the club and had to get rid of guys that would try to flirt with her all night.
That's totally fine, I'm 6'1 so you wouldn't be taller than me even in heels.
Yes, some guys might have an inferiority complex, especially the short ones seeing a girl taller than them, but that still wouldn't be the case about me, even if the girl would be taller, though that's something totally rare!
Don't give a damn what they say. Looking at your picture, your extremely beautiful. I find tall girls attractive, so I wouldn't have an issue with it. Those guys that judge you are just mad because they couldn't get with a rare beauty such as yourself.
I date a 5'8" Vietnamese girl who has a penchant for 5" stilettos from Aldo. People stare at her as well, but it's an awestruck thing. What else could it be? "Wow, she's so tall, slender, and not beautiful?" *laugh* I'm guessing "woah she's tall" comes from shorter guys, not the 6'4" ones like myself. We will tend to say "now that's what I like to see!" The people staring at you with stink eye, I'm guessing, might usually be other girls, when their dates are looking at you.
I am 5'11 and I feel the same way .. especially because in my country, the average heights is 5'2 or something ... and even less! .. I love heels too , but I only wear them if I really have to wear formal wear.. and I tend to go for shorter heels .. =/
I have taller friends than that who wear heels..go for it..if you can walk in heels they boost your confidence! Heels are to girls what suits are to guys.ie. everyone who can wear them immediately looks hotter! :)
Wear any height shoes you want to! I'm 5' 9" too and all my heels add an extra 5" to me! I was self conscious about it but then I realized 1) I look fabulous in the heels 2) a lot of dudes don't care and 3) it's actually draw positive attention to me i.e. fashionable, you could be a model...blah blah lol! And it feels like you are on top of the world at the club.
If that doesn't get you, I have a friend who's 6'1 and she still wears heels. Don't let your height be a handicap! :)
i'm only 5'6 and already get funny stares and nasty comments from aunties here in malaysia, I've stop on my heels for a long time and thinking of wearing em' heels again, but I felt self conscious too.
let us all tall girls in malaysia wear high heels! yay!
im 5'4 and I barely wear heels because I feel too tall but now I don't care anymore I am going to wear what I want so go for it girl wear heels guys will only be jealous they aren't tall enough to be with a girl who is pritty :)