I've heard quite a few guys insist that they find a female with abs and muscles unattractive. Why is this? Is this maybe because they feel insecure about their own lack of abs and muscles? Even in my own situation, I am looking to get more muscle. I've explained this to male friends I have who have huge muscles and they're like "Well you're a girl! You're not supposed to have muscles! Why do you want muscles?"
I want muscles because I think it's important to be strong. This world is chaotic and crazy; a girl has got to know how to protect herself! With not only mental strength, but physical strength. My mother raised me to be independent and self reliant. Apart of that mentality has come with being a very strong girl who can protect and defend myself. I want to be able to lift things on my own. I don't see why that would be a turn off. I plan on working out this year and putting some muscle on my skinny arms.
Why is that a turn off for guys? Girls, what is your opinion on this topic? If you have muscles, how have guys responded to you?
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It is the opposite for me, I love how muscle looks and feels on a girl.1