Basically I hate my boyfriends hair...it makes me a little embaressed and it's a huge turn off. (The offending hair being a mullethawk type deal)
Thing is when I brought it up he gave the argument that he isn't allowed to decide anything about my appearance so why should I dictate his. Technically I agree with his point but I still find it a trial not to shear him like a sheep.
once he goes in for a serious job interview with a haircut like that he won't be taken seriously lol
but to answer your question, yes and no.
my girlfriend has used occasions like holidays and birthdays to buy me clothes she thinks would look good on me, and for the most part, I like her selection. who else am I trying to impress anyway? but its also because she knows what id like and doesn't get me anything id be uncomfortable wearing.
I would absolutely hate it if she bought me an article of clothing that I just felt ridiculous in. Same thing should be with your boyfriend. Tell him what you personally would think looked best on him. If he's uncomfortable with it, than he just is, and you should embrace his individuality. and if you can't, you probably don't like him enough anyway
I think in the end, it's the guy's decision how they want to look and whether they're going to change their look. Me, I'd probably let her change mine, because I don't care that much, but if she tried something I didn't like, such as forcing me to gel my hair and such, then I'd say no. For the most part, I wouldn't mind.
It's a two-way street so if you're suggesting changes, you'd have to be open to him suggesting changes for you. With hair it can be really touchy though because it's one of the big ways a guy identifies himself. I'll agree though that that's not a good haircut to have but maybe you should try to ease into the idea of it and he'll open up eventually. If not he might just be being a little unfair
I am on your side..provided you believe that bfs should have input the other direction..I get REALLY sick of females on here telling me that it's none of my business if I want my woman to leave her pubes or limit her makeup or not get breast augmentation or areolae reduction...I certainly listen to and take VERY seriously ANYTHING that my wife says about my appearance...and she respects my opinion..sure the decision is up to the individual...but I wouldn't be around for long with any female who didn't care what I thought..the way I look at it..i look in the mirror 4 or 5 times in a day...but my mate looks at me all day long..should I NOT care what she thinks? ...(:
If women can "engineer" their boyfriends than the opposite is fair too. Basically, do you think a boyfriend should get to engineer his girl's look? If you say no, but wanna try and change his looks, you're a hypocrite and should grow the f*** up. If you say yes, then well.. whatever. So until you let him decide on YOUR looks you have no right to decide on his if he's not cool with it.
I think that your opinion should matter to him but you shouldn't be the one to decide. If he takes your opinion into consideration then that's all he needs to do, he has to choose on his own since it is his hair.
Yes and no. Mine has agreed to let me dress him up, only once, in whatever I wish. He has a very short list of things he refuses to wear, ever, though. He has agreed because he knows that although I have no problem with the way he looks, it'd make me happy to see him in things beyond the norm. Of course, he has been given permission to do the exact same, if he cared to.