i have the last one, and for a sexy Valentine's day bra, I don't really reccomend it. I prefer the second one, but just because it scoops down between the cups? like, the other one almost looks like a balconet bra? and personally, I'm not a huge fan of that? if I'm going to go for the whole sexy thing, id rather that more be exposed then less? its not a huge difference, but its a noticeable one.