i feel like I'm not pretty, I've never had a boyfriend, never had a guy like me, never had a guy check me out/flirt with me, and I'm 16 and never been kissed. Does anybody else feel this way or have been through it, any tips on how I can be prettier?
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*sigh* I feel the same way sometimes, I'm never been kissed or been out with anyone (there's and way of knowing if anyone ever liked me, I'm sure they have though everyone gets liked by someone its just not always someone you consider an option or someone you know, and people do flirt, you just have to take notice, but I am a very genial person and outgoing so in public I have no problem making conversation with others, I guess that makes me more approachable? I'm not bragging just trying to get you yo maybe open up. But I know how you feel, I will have days where I just look in the mirror like "whyyyy god whyyyyyy" lol, or where I just think I'm really fat and unattractive, gonna be single forevaaa blah blah blah, but don't give in to that negative bullsh*t! You can drown in those negative thoughts, all throughout the later year of middleschool and first 2 years of hs I let that sh*t get to me, then online I read a quote, it said
"If you had a friend who talked to you the way you sometimes talk to yourself, how long would you let that person be your friend?"
Holy sh*t was that a wake up call, here I was being an ass and to myself, if I had a friend who said some of the things I said to myself I would punch her I the head! If I dfidnt like myself how could I expect others to? So I stopped, now I have thoughts occasionally and I realize that's OK, that's normal I'm not pathetic for felling sad about it or for letting it get to me sometimes, not even for being single I just realize that it will pass and its really not a big deal it only feels like it is. I allow myself to feel then I get over it and go do something I enjoy like talking to a friend or watching an old show/movie I like. I understand it hurts, but that is OK just don't allow yourself to get weighed down in that pain and he if you need someone to talk to just message me, I'm serious, its no problem at all :)5