My boyfriend is fit and athletic and takes care of himself but its more the lean type of fit. I really want to see him with more muscle mass Because really that's what I've always fantasized about. I'm not sure if I should bring it up with him though because he might take it offensively or it might make me sound superficial and like a bitch.
Is it okay to ask him? Or should I keep it to myself?
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You can't really hope for him to feel loved by you if you do something like that. Now, you can definitely tell him that you think his muscles are sexy, and positive reinforcement, like 'it's so sexy that you work out' is great... but if he's not interested in changing and he doesn't work out, I wouldn't hold out hope1