like I'm a pretty good looking guy but honestly I don't think I'm anything special, not the ideal man looks wise or anything, but that's mainly due to my figure. maybe if I was into working out, and had a top body I could be an 8 or so to some girls, but looking at a woman like Lucy Pinder or something, wow, absolutely stunning. eyes to die for. or Rosie Jones, even better possibly.
they're british glamour models so I wouldn't exactly want a girl that bares all for the camera but just that level of physical beauty. or even a hot girl that makes a lot of money. beautiful. top class. am I out of my mind?
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If your average and know how to attract woman (which is a skill that takes years to develop) it's not unreasonable.
I know this one guy who has this really religious / spiritual thing going on and he gets the most attractive girls to date him. Girls that other guys would spend 3-4 years chasing to hook, he manages to win in a couple of weeks and even though he's tall, he's not that good looking in the face but it's the way he carries himself and the way he talks. He writes poetry which is truly inspirational and he is a very active person, always initiating things, always taking action, always seeing problems that need to be solved and fixed, and always defending the rights of other people, he is also highly responsive and emotional and truly appreciates the people and things he sees. He looks at the world with a whole new eye and perception that you don't find anywhere else... this is how gets these girls. I'm not attracted to him in any way, shape or form, I find him to be a player and even though it's clear to me that he probably does have very strong religious beliefs, he has never shared his heart with a woman in the same way that he's shared his heart with god. For me he is just eye candy.
I know other guys who are able to hook girls with their humor, their shrewdness, their popularity and their ambition. For many woman, intelligence, popularity are sexier than
Another hook that guys use to get girls is high academic achievement or income. I've known guys that nobody would consider anywhere close to good looking, and they had top girls with very good bodies, amazing faces, charm and fashions sense dating them and trying hard to impress them.
Also, there are A LOT of girls who are not superficial and will look at things other than your appearance. I don't care about looks at all most of the time... I only notice about 2% of the guys I see in real life: either because they are extremely good looking to me or because I find them to be the opposite of good looking. Once you break that barrier of no longer being the "friend" or "background noise" but actually the "guy" then your looks start to matter to me. I am crushing on this guy and before I started to like him I would have given him a 6 out of 10, now I'll give him a 9.5 out of 10 because his looks are simply amazing.1