I don't understand because men are visual creatures so how does this happen? They are supposed to prefer beautiful women and put pretty women at the top. So how come I see all these unattractive girls with boyfriends and husbands? They're not just in fwbs, no these women are actually married or engaged so the guys obviously love them.
(when I say unattractive, I don't mean a average girl that's not a model, I mean truly unattractive. like fat, obese or not cute in the face)
How are they getting guys? It's just confusing to me because society and guys will tell you how looks are so important and that personality comes second, so why are girls who aren't cute getting play? Is personality really THAT important? Or are these guys only dating them because they can't do better?
Please don't start calling me a bitch because I'm genuinely wanting to know. I obviously got this impression about beauty from SOMEWHERE, so it's not like I'm being a bitch, it's what I've been taught and told for so many years. That's why I'm honestly mind boggled.
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Different guys like different things. I want a slender woman, my best friend wants a fat woman. Regarding looks, that is one the first things we look for before any thing else. We want the opposite, we never agree on the same woman being pretty. We can agree if she is nice, cool, and fun.
It is not all about looks, if that is what you are looking at then maybe that explains a little of the visual attractiveness men see. It is preference.0