I am constantly told I'm cute, which is find and dandy and I'm totally flattered but on occasion I want to up that appearance and try a sexy approach. I'm not sure how you go from cute to sexy though. Please help! Guy and Girl responses are much appreciated !
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sexy is broken down into two categories; sexy appearance and sexy attitude.
-a lot is genetic e.g. body and face shape, symmetry etc.
-hairstyle: generally long hair comes off as more sexually attractive and shorter hair as cuter but you're going to be more successful if you actually seek out a hairstyle that flatters your face shape. men find all sorts of face shapes attractive so work with what youve got.
-clothing: there is a fine line between sexy and slutty but it can be done. attraction is 50% what you have and 50% of what people think you have. dress up your assets and camouflage your less attractive features. if you have a nice butt wear tight fitting jeans and some heels. if you have a small waist use waist belts to draw attention there. big boobs, wear something showing cleavage but that's not over the top where they are spilling out. you can also use certain patterns on clothing to flatter your figure. horizontal stripes to make certain areas look wider, vertical to make you look taller/leaner. heels will dress up just about any outfit, just don't wear them with baggy sweatpants.
-makeup: natural looking yet somewhat bold makeup is sexy. eyeliner can change your look from cute to sexy instantly. smokey eyes are usually quite sexy but over the top smokey eyes can make you look slutty.
-confidence is number one: confidence in anything that you do. even if you are not confident, fake it til you make it. show confidence in your appearance, driving ability, cooking skills, competitions, school work, etc. confidence shows guys that you are less maintenance emotionally and that's easier on them which makes it more attractive. always smile and keep your head up high and keep a good posture and you'll exude confidence. heels help too, if you can walk properly in them :P
- positive attitude: this goes hand in hand with confidence and obviously makes you seem nicer to be around. this one though is confusing because it can be perceived both as cute and sexy. as long as you have the rest of the attitude sections down pat this one will also come across as sexy.
-maturity: cute is perceived when you're not acting as mature as you could. a lot of the time complaining comes off as immature so avoid that as much as possible. and confidence also comes off as mature (cocky comes off as immature though). the tone of voice you use is a big sign of your maturity level. speak clearly and confidently and avoid the "baby voice" and you should do fine.
last but not least knowing who you are and not allowing anyone to change that is the sexiest thing of all, don't be overtly dependent on people either. good luck ;)3
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