PHEWF! I'm so happy the majority of people chose personality. People need to stop judging others on the outside. Sure they have the gift of attracting people from a distance, but it all comes down to who you really are inside.
Some girls are so obsessed with the way they look, that they forget about working on their attitudes, that in the end will win over your good looks.
Please people, be smart and try taking interest in others with beautiful personalities and talents. Keep in mind, that the people you think are good-looking now will end up changing in body and face, for we never stop growing. ;)
In my eyes, if I like his personality, I'll most likely think he's attractive inside and out. Plus what's the point in liking someone for their looks. The looks will eventually get old. What's the point on liking a person for their looks if their personality sucks. If their hot, they'll eventually get old and ugly, while if their personality is great, it'll always be great, no matter how old they get. :]
If you just walk up and ask a girl out, looks. Because that is all she has to base her decision on.
If you're strong point is personality, you need enough to time to showcase it, to "sell your product" because that is basically what you're doing. The minute in which you chat a girl up is not enough time for you to show off your personality. That is what clubs are for, so you have common interests you can talk about in a casual manner.
I'll be honest and say that looks do matter to a certain extent. When you first see someone you don't think "Oh they have a great personality", you think about what you're attracted to, be it eye color, height, facial features, weight..etc. If they're attractive, of course you're going to want to talk to them again and hope for something more. But looks only go so far, I'll admit. If you're looking for love you look for personality. The few boyfriends I've had weren't the kind of guys you'd look at and immediately want to get with, but I dated them because they were great guys and I was comfortable around them, whereas I'm nervous and shy around good looking guys. When I'm attracted to someones personality, their looks couldn't mean less to me. All that matters is that we have a great time together, and I feel something when we hold hands, cuddle, kiss, and hang out.
What usually reels me in is looks...but if they have a bad personality I'll move one. If a guy has a great personality then I'll totally go for him, no matter how cute (or not) he is. The only thing that really bothers me is crooked teeth...but other than that, his looks are irrelvent.
I myself like a good personality in a guy. The guy I like right now, I can't say I was immediately interested in him when I first saw him. It was once I got to know him and see what his personality was like, that I started to become interested in him and find him more cute. My best friend has only briefly met him and seen him, and she doesn't see what I see in him and wouldn't go out with him, but she's just looking at his outward appearance.
I wouldn't date a guy who was extremely gorgeous and beautiful and what is my preference in looks if he was a complete jerk, but I would date a guy if he had a great personality but wasn't exactly what I thought was attractive in the looks department. Granted, I think you need to be attracted somehow to someones looks, but once you get to know someone I think that you'll begin see things that you like about them and find them attractive in some way.
looks, its the first thing you see! but personality is very important!
Honestly, looks are the things that attract me first. But at the end of the day, it's personality that wins me over. If they have an amazing personality, that just makes then even more attractive. But yeh, it's true, there's also gota be phyiscal attraction there. So looks+ personality would be my prefrence lol :D
Looks fade, personality stays
If a guy is "hot" but at the same time an "@ss." That is so not cool man. I will have to go with personality.
they both matter to me.I know this may sound shallow, but I wouldn't date a ugly guy with a great personality.and I wouldn't date a good looking jerk.
anyone that says personality if lying... In the long run you might want personality over looks but when do you ever hear someone say "Man I'm gonna go talk to her, she looks like she's got a great personality"
there might be a guy with everything you want in a guy,But he's not pretty to look at so won't even get a chance.
Looks get my attention,but personality keeps me interested. Although a great personality can shine through, which hopefuly mine does since I know I ain't the greatest ( but I am better than the rest :)
Good personality is the most important. I'm dating a girl who isn't my usual type but she has an incredible personality and we really click. But if you were to point her out in a club I wouldn't be interested.