Despite the fact that 'fat' lies within a huge definition range, what should we think about it?
In my opinion sporty people are most likely a bit more good looking than 'fat' persons are. And as for me I cannot understand how some people let it come THAT far (I'm not talking about a few pounds to much, I'm thinking about the 200pounds+ range...)
If a girl would be working hard to get from that to a more sporty body, I'd envy her for having this courage because this course is hard and long! Getting off of weight is a really long run, it's years of work in fitness centers and general sports, but in my opinion it's worth it.
Just never lose confidence that you're able to actually do it and don't try to train alone - this won't do...
And as for becoming 'hot' there's more needs as to have a sporty body. Way to dress, way to act around others, the character and so on ;)
But if you're really willing to change yourself in some ways, I really hope you have good friends around you who will support you because this helps enormously !
If she's did that for me and it worked...Well shit that would be f***ing awesome. I'd have mad respect for her. I mean she already has worked so hard to just initiate the relationship. I say hats off to her! That shit happens with girls you grow up with. Some of the attractive girls get busted and some of the unattractive girls get stunning. I respect people who worked to better themselves more than people that were just born with it.
Fat generally isn't a problem for me until it starts getting in the way of play. What I can tell you is that I do know a number of women who were fat and managed to lose the weight. They were kind of shocked at how much that changes their prospects. Not that they didn't have prospect earlier, they just wanted something better than those guys. Lots of people find less weight more attractive than more weight.
More directly, if you have someone in particular in mind, please understand that you are making a huge change and betting a great deal of yourself on their reaction. Don't do that, it puts enormous pressure on everyone. If you want more prospects, size down to 20# over what you think you should be and re-evaluate what you want at that point. You might find that that particular guy doesn't look quite so appealing.
there are fat girls who have cute faces , and if they lost weight would become a 8 or 9 if they loose the weight .. even if she isint pretty in the face loosing weight would make her more physically attractive than she was by default.