I'm a pretty short guy (about 5'4"), and admittedly so I'm a bit self conscious about it. I typically pass because I either feel that picking up a particular girl is impossible because she is a lot taller than m or that I wouldn't want to be with her anyway because her being taller than me would make this awkward. What doesn't help the fact is that many times both my female and male friends will bring attention to my height by saying things, like "man you're short", or "whats up little man", or "hey watch it I'm taller than you" when we're kidding around with each other.
However, I feel I have a lot going for me. I personally believe and have been told that I'm an attractive guy. I always get complimented on my style (yes by women), sometimes my female friends will actually tell their BF's to dress like me. I have a solid career path, as I am next in line to take over the family business, which without going into specifics, is in a very respectable industry and is quite lucrative. I play in a guitar in a rock band, I am outgoing and friendly. I'm respectful and kind. the list goes on.
So anyway, how important really is height? And how hard would it be for a guy like me to get a girl whether she is taller OR shorter than me (since short girls also seem to prefer tall guys)?
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I guess it's a sense of security that the height gives. I'm only 5'2" but I've dated 6' guys and the shortest one was 5'6". I'd date someone who's 5'4" but would probably be hesitant to date someone the same height.
If you are looking for younger girls, I guess height would be a problem, but as girls grow up, appearances are not the main concern to them no more. You've probably seen that many beautiful girls are with average guys. With the list of attributes you've provided, it seems like you're a nice, fun, and smart person, I don't think see any reasons you wouldn't find the right girl for you. Just be confident and don't be too conscious about all this height issue.0