I want to dress well, and be happy with how I look. What concerns me greatly is the male attention that having pride in appearance tends to bring. When it comes to dressing well but avoiding the attention of men, how do you do it?
I don't want male attention in any form, if that's at all possible, college is simply to busy right now. Dating and friendship aren't a priority, so how to be anonymous without being slovenly?
You can't. You can dress like a slob and wear baggy clothing, or you can dress well and get attention. Why don't you just be honest with the guys and tell them you aren't interested in dating, but would consider them as male friends? Sounds like a win-win because you're being up front and you just might make a good friend or two along the way.