It sure doesn't seem like it. People make fun of you, friends lie to you ("Oh he's just intimidated by you," "You have such a great PERSONALITY") and guys won't touch you with a ten-foot pole. It would probably be better for all us ugly girls to just become hermits, or barricade ourselves off... I think that's what nunneries were for in the old days, ugly girls who no man would marry.
Sure it makes it tougher, but you are probably underestimating yourself and what you can do about it. I have said this before -- the homeliest woman I ever met was at my place of work, but she was quite aware of her looks and very determined to overcome it. She kept herself physically fit; out-dressed her feamle colleauges; wore makeup perfectly; was a very competent and hard worker; always smiled and was friendly and happy to help others, and at the same time she was very self confident.
As a result, others were happy to see her coming down the hall (especially the guys) and management frequently asked for her opinion. In the end, I would say that she just plain looked better than she looked.
ahhhh...if you wanna be not ugly I'll help?and about fat just STAY AWAY FROM JUNK FOOD..and go to gym more often like EVRYDAY...and when you lose some wight and start having a nice body that would take off your ugly looks and make your body hott
Yeah, life is definitely not kind to ugly girls. If I had a son I'd hope he ends up not being stupid (because his career is most important to his well being) but if I had a daughter, I'd hope she ends up not being ugly.
How about being a short guy? I think everyone knows us short guys are going to be forever single. We are just not boyfriend material. Marriage?! Hah! Marriage doesn't even exist in our lives. I mean, why would it? No girl even wants to date a short guy let alone marry one. I think me and the rest of my fellow short guys should just jump off a cliff and make the rest of the world happy.
it's juts that our society values beauty too much in women, I wish I could say something to cheer you up but I can't
try to enhance yourself if you must, I mean movie stars do it all the time, so what if you weren't born with it, instead of being miserable why not save up some money and fix w/e problems you think you have
From my understanding, this kind of mistreatment doesn't occur outside of high school. When you're out in the real world people aren't picking on you and treating you bad just because you aren't the most attractive person ever, so either you are still in high school and are lying about your age, or you are being over dramatic.
What you need to do, is pull yourself up by your bootstraps, learn what makes YOU happy and go for it. Guy's also won't "touch you with a ten foot pole' if you have no self esteem and no personality. So be the real you and stop lamenting over some ego centric a**hole who chose someone for their appearance.
Better yet, realize that not every person is chosen for their appearance, that person could have a great personality. Its NOT all about looks.
Its harsh, and I'm sorry if it sounded mean, but what you wrote is a cop-out. Its a dramatic thought you have RIGHT NOW and has little bearing in reality.
Just focus on yourself and loving you and the rest will fall into place.
Yes...when you're overweight, ugly and have severe acne! You will be the subject of every day ridicule, guys won't give you the time of day (just laugh at you as you walk by and your ass jiggles) and you are basically an outcast. Welcome to my teenage years.