I always hear people calling others fat, but in my eyes their not fat their just big, or slightly overweight.
So I am very curious to what you really consider "fat" to be? How much does the person weigh, or what size are his/her clothes to make them fat in your eyes?
Also would you date a fat, obese, curvy, big person or have you ever?
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Well I don't like to use the word "Fat" but the technical term for someone who is overweight is what most people would considered fat. IF the person is supposed to be 175, and they are 195, technically they are overweight, but that's how it is.
Personally, I think its wrong to label someone whose overweight as "fat" because it only adds on top of their insecurity as it is. In my eyes, I don't mind some extra baggage, but I don't find someone who is close to 250 lbs to 300 lbs attractive. IF its only 40 lbs overweight, I wouldn't even consider it an issue, and yeah I have dated an BBW before for 3 years. She was stunningly beautiful and carried herself properly, I think that's why I didn't ever think much about her body other then her breasts or butt when it came to sexual actions in the bedroom. Other then that, I never thought much about it.2