42 inches around the largest part of my hips and butt. If so. I'm going to try lose it unless it's not considered disgusting.. It's pretty toned though but still don't want it tooo big. But in a guy's perspective is that gross?
Mine is about that but t looks fine, especially because I have a large bust and a waist that is about 12 inches smaller... It's on the larger side, but I think since you said it was toned it is part of your body type, and therefore isn't a problem. The question you should be asking is, does it look proportional to the rest of your body?
42? That's pretty big. Its like one of those video vixen chicks you see in rap videos. Mines is a 36. As long as your body is proportional then it should be fine. Some guys like big some don't . I would think a 42 would be too big for me