My guy never takes my suggestions about hair or clothes (for him to wear). Don't he know hair and clothes can be a major turnon if done like we like it? Am I right ladies?! He lets his fluffy hair swoop to the side, and wears bermuda shorts and sandals. . . ugh! I love him but sh*t man! Wear some sexy jeans with sexy boots and cut that hair or gel it back so I can see that sexy face! Am I in the wrong fellas?
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It all depends on how you do it. I'm not going to assume anything, I'm just going to list possibilities.
If you tell him "You really don't know how to dress", "you should get rid of your clothes", "I'm going to take you shopping and I'm going to get you new stuff" etc, generally just talk bad about his style and say you are going to make him better, of course he's not going to listen.
More than anything, guys want to be in control of themselves. If you boss him around, he'll do anything to show that he's still his own boss by *not* doing what you're trying to force him.
If on the other hand you tell him something like "I saw some clothes I think would really make you look sexy"; "I think if you wore this outfit it might really turn me on", etc; so in a positive reinforcement way, you'll get much better result.
Women's opinions matter when it's expressed in a positive, flattering way, not in a negative, naggy or controlling way.
And even then, men sometimes don't do these things straight away. They'll take it in, let it rest a while, and make the change when *they* feel ready. In this case he's basically compromising being his own boss, and respecting your wishes.2