Well,i'm 5'5', and my weight is 127 ponds. I lost in a year 24.
Last time I felt myself depressed,i was actually in depression,had an eating disorder,low self esteem,etc.etc.
I'm single,but a normal,pretty attractive girl.The only thing is-i'm obsessed with my weight,even if I left those things with ana and mia,i still feel I'm not good enough,it keeps me away from being intimate with guys.It keeps me away from being happy with myself.
What do I do? Do I think that looks are too important,or do guys really care about looks that much? I'm so confused...
i also had an eating issue for about 3 years and am slowly getting over it. The thing is; havin glow esteem, dissatisfaction in life, family issues or stress can project onto you feelong bad about your body. anythime you are unhappy with a nonfood issue it comesout through food. you may be upset over a test and then worry you will get fat and starve yourself. the key is to fix whatever else in your life is bothering you because it os never directly looks or weight. find freinds and surround yourself with pp that make you feel good and have fun , go out. stay healthy, join a gym or do your hobby. (I joined theatre and forgot about food). you gotta distract yourself using music, religion, friends, job. you can also go to counseling which is a MUST becaus since foodis always around; this prob is gona bother you. having a self imageprob is deeper than worrying solely about your looks. your not vain or superficial you just need to figure out whathe REAL issue is.I hope I helped, any more ques I'm glad to asnswer
i think that most guys will look at how a girl looks. that' smy personal experience. and I learnt it from experience. when I was in highschool, I wasn't the most attractive, after highschool I'm more attractive. but I dont' like it when a guy hits on me simply because of how I look. that just makes me mad.
you did all of that just for guys? sweetie, guys really aren't worth it. your height and weight are normal. any guy who has an issue with your weight obviously has some weird issue with himself and isn't a guy anyone should date.
Guys care about looks, but not as much as one who is obsessed with it. I'm sorry if that sounded mean, couldn't think of a better way to word it. They want you to look decently attractive, but you don't have to be "perfect". Most girls are harder on ourselves than guys are. I'm sure you're fine!