I mean her being a bitch was enough of a reason you don't have to really wonder. If you werent happy even if she stayed hot as hell for the last 3 years eventually you would have dumped her if you couldn't handle her. So you did the right thing regardless of her weight issues.
that being said its genetic that a girl can be as fat as her mom but also having an active lifestyle from a young person up into adulthood can be a deciding factor as well. I'm fat and my daughter is built way more petite that I am and I was always lazy as far as exercising, goes but She can't be still and is way more into health and personal appearance than I ever was even at her age, so I don't think it's gonna be an issue for her like it has been for me.
I wouldn't say you're wrong for breaking up with a girl who acts like a bitch, but you may not have done it for the right reasons. People do NOT always mature the same way their parents do. Remember that lots and lots of different genes play a role; every person gets DNA from both their parents, not just their parent of the same sex, and genes that were recessive in their parents could be active for them. Unless you've met a lot of her family members and seen pictures of her parents and grandparents when they were younger, you won't have a very good idea about how she will mature. Looking at her mom as she is right now tells you virtually nothing. And lifestyle plays a big role as well.
You can get some clues from someone's parents, but you can't get anything definite. If looks are the most important thing to you, you will be best off finding a girl from a whole family of supermodels.
Her being bitchy was enough reason for you to leave. However, when it comes to looks you can't always look at their parents and judge them off of that. Just because her mom has bad eating habits doesn't mean she will. I think if anything then she would see these bad habits and see it as a motivation to not be like that when older.
I think it was more of the fact she was bitch that ultimately became the reason you decided to end things. However I also think that when you truly love someone and can't live your life with out them then it doesn't matter what the potential future them will look like because that love should be strong and nothing else at that point will matter that's the whole point of growing old together. Look at those cute older couple who have been married for 40 plus years that still hold hands and you can still see their passion for each other in their eyes. Everyone gets old and that should be embraced.
Um, just because her mother is obese doesn't mean she will be. Most of the time kids of overweight parents are thinner since they witness health risks etc. No one is born obese, so you can't judge on that, only on facial features and how well she ages etc. I do think you ended things because she was a bitch ultimately and not her obese mother.
That's not entirely true. I'm 5ft a size 6 my mom is 4"10 about 170. She has always chubby. I love her that way. Both my older sisters take after her. I think I'm like my great grandmother, most of my life I've been thin. I think you're being unrealistic. You have to look beyond someone's imperfections or you're gonna end up alone. Love is accepting someone for who they are not so much what they look like.
Children tend to grow up to look like their parents. Girls tend to look like their mothers, but just because their mother is fat, that doesn't mean the daughter will end up fat as well.
Not always ... My mom has always been on the heavier side but my dad has been thin his whole life... I think I favor my dad because I have been the same size all my life and I'm average/thin. Same thing with my mothers sisters daughter (my cousin)..My aunt (her mom), has always been heavier like my mom but her dad is stick thin and she's been stick thin her whole life too...girls can take after there dads.
Well... it is true that a majority of people end up looking like their parents, both from genetics and lifestyle choices. But that isn't necessarily a reason to break up with someone.
The reason you should have broken up with her wasn't because she might gain weight... But because she was a bitch. Why would you date someone that didn't have a good personality simply because she was hot? That's a litlte shallow. I hate to say it, but you two might be perfect for each other.
I don't. Someones personality ques you into how they will run their life style. Just because she has a mom that is lazy and lets herself go, doesn't mean the daughter will be the same, and vice versa. It's about if they have motivation, commitment, and an active life style.