For some reason, I don't see people that way. Like I think if you look at someone long enough, they have something about them that is attractive...girls and guys both...do you know what I mean? I don't think I always felt this way but now I'm a firm believer that no one should be thought of as "ugly." Some are just more average looking than others...thoughts?
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I mean I don't think any one is ugly.
Who has the right to call someone else unattractive or ugly?
It's such a hateful word.
I am no better than any one else. Therefore, I cannot call someone else ugly.
Everyone has their own tastes. So everyone is appealing to someone else. There are 6 billion people in the world. I 'm sure you're appealing to at least one!
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So once you finally see your true self its like a veil is lifted from your eyes and you finally get to see the person that you've always wanted to see. (Even though its the same person) Get it?
It's like saying a certain article of clothing is ugly.
Why say its ugly?
Why can't we just say it's not my style. I wouldn't wear that.
Everyone has their own tastes and such.
Your question reminded me of this quote (I think I showed it to you before):
When you start to really know someone, all his physical characteristics start to disappear. You begin to dwell in his energy, recognize the scent of his skin. You see only the essence of the person, not the shell. That’s why you can’t fall in love with beauty. You can lust after it, be infatuated by it, want to own it. You can love it with your eyes and body but not your heart. And that’s why, when you really connect with a person’s inner self, any physical imperfections disappear, become irrelevant.
- Lisa Unger
P.s. When I say 'you' I don't mean you in particular haha1
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